Friday, November 28, 2008

The Sex drive

The Sex drive by Emmanuel Timothy M.

Your sex drive is killing your sex life.
The amazing gift - of a sex drive - that you were born with, has become your worst enemy.
Let me ask you something…
Have you ever seen an innocent child chasing after a butterfly?
Just as the child gets closer to the butterfly, and begins smiling because he's about to catch it… he gets too excited, and moves too fast… and scares his prize away.
And this is exactly what you're probably doing with women right now.
Innocently… and ignorantly… you're pushing away the women you're most attracted to… and, in the process, you're pushing away your chances of having sexually fulfilling relationships with those women.
How am I so sure about this?
Because I did this exact same thing ALL MY LIFE.
And it's only now, after years of "self development" and learning that I'm able to see my past thinking and behavior for EXACTLY what it was… DESTRUCTIVE. Some Of The Many Mistakes I Made…
You may have heard me mention this before, but I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 18 years old. Up until that point, I had gotten used to women not paying attention to me, and I just assumed that I wasn't the type of guy that women were "interested in".
I would hear stories about the other guys in my high school "hooking up" with the attractive girls… and, over time, I just got the point where I accepted the idea that those guys must have something "special" about them… that attracted women in a sexual way.
The more these other guys "scored", and the more I didn't score, the more I affirmed that belief in my mind…
But here's the kicker: Just because women weren't interested in ME in a sexual way… didn't mean that I wasn't interested in THEM in a sexual way. My desire was always there… hoping… waiting… praying for a chance opportunity to be with one of these seemingly out-of-reach beauties I saw all around me.
Now that I look back on it, I realize that the frustration that came from believing that I would never be successful with women… combined with my growing desire to BE with one of these women… ruled my "mental world".
I had no idea that I had the word "DESPERATE" written in big bold letters on my forehead. Women could see it… but I had no idea it was even there.
This "foundation" (if you could call it that), led to another set of problems as I got older…
Because I secretly believed that women weren't interested in me "in that way", I always felt embarrassed, ashamed, and guilty about my desires to be with them…
I could be talking to an attractive woman, and as soon as I started to think "Hey, this woman is hot…" I would become INCREDIBLY self-conscious.
All of a sudden, I felt like my thoughts and intentions were being projected on a giant movie screen right in front of the girl I was talking to. I felt like she could READ MY MIND.
Worse, I felt like she not only knew what I was thinking, but she was probably DISGUSTED by it… and wanted to get away from me.
I mean, if you were an attractive woman, and a guy that wasn't attractive in any way was talking to you… and thinking sexual thoughts about you… wouldn't YOU want to get away as fast as possible?
I thought so. And, more importantly, I thought that SHE thought so.
And again… now that I'm older, and can look back on this with experience… I can see that I was literally sabotaging my chances of success with these women. What Was Wrong? Why Couldn't I See It?
At that time in my life, I had NO WAY of knowing what the problem was.
I had no way of knowing that the women I was so attracted to could see RIGHT THROUGH ME.
I had no way of knowing that it was OBVIOUS to them that I wanted them… and that I didn't know how to GET them…
The problem was actually three problems:
1) had NO Sexual Confidence.
2) I had NO Sexual Experience.
3) I had NO clue.
Not only did I lack confidence and experience, I didn't even have anyone to slap me upside the head and say "Hey dumbass! Go get some Sexual Confidence… and read a few books about sex already!"
In fact, sometimes I mentally go back and bitch-slap my inner child and say those exact words! Just don't mention that to any therapists… they might not agree with my self-motivation techniques…
In total, I spent around ten YEARS of my adult life in this "rat maze", trying to find the secret door… and only running into one frustrating situation after another.
I'd get lucky, and start a casual conversation with a woman that I found attractive… and screw it up because I was so insecure about my sexuality… and because I thought she could NEVER find me attractive… so I wouldn't even TRY.
I'd get lucky again, and wind up dating a woman that I really liked… and because I had no Sexual Confidence, I'd turn into "Super Wussy Boy" and she'd get bored of me… and we'd break up.
I'd get VERY lucky… and find myself in a situation where an attractive woman was in bed with me… but I'd get nervous and self-conscious… and not be able to even get sexually excited (by the way, this one is the hardest to even admit… and I can't believe I'm typing these words right now).
These are just a few of the COUNTLESS situations that I screwed up over those ten or so years of my life…
If you've been reading this, and you can identify with what I'm talking about, then what I'm about to say will probably change your life FOREVER. I'm not kidding… The Root Of The Problem…
The sad (but true) fact is that I had NO IDEA that my problems were coming from my MIND.
It wasn't that women weren't interested in me… and it wasn't that they were disgusted by my desire for them…
The reality was that I didn't know how to MAKE them interested… and I didn't know that if they were interested, that they would LIKE the fact that I wanted them sexually.
In short, I had no SEXUAL CONFIDENCE.
Those two words are interesting together, aren't they?
Somehow, even though you've probably never seen them used together… you probably know EXACTLY what they mean when used in this way… right?
Let's put it another way.
I'll bet you've "thought through" the idea that sex is "natural"… right?
You've gone over it in your mind over and over… and you've convinced yourself logically that there's "nothing wrong with sex"… and that if you are interested in a woman sexually, that it's totally healthy and acceptable.
But then there's REALITY…
When you find yourself in the SITUATION with a woman… and you suspect that she might be "reading your mind", you become self-conscious and ashamed again… even though you "know" there's nothing to be self-conscious and ashamed about…
This, my friend, is a lack of Sexual Confidence.
But there's more…
I also mentioned earlier the factor called "sexual experience".
Here I'm talking specifically about knowing exactly how to please a woman in the bedroom. I'm talking about having the goods. I'm talking about being able to look at a woman and say to yourself "if that woman is lucky enough to experience some time with me on an intimate level, she is going to remember it for the rest of her life".
THAT is what I'm talking about.
And when you COMBINE these two factors, and you develop them consciously… you will become a man that has UNLIMITED options with women. A "Dirty Secret" That Most Women Will Never Admit…
One of the most INTERESTING things I learned while I was teaching myself about Sexual Confidence was this:
Many (or maybe even most) attractive women have gone through… or are going through… a time in their lives where they have become what I call "sexually dormant".
What I'm talking about here is very private, and very personal to most women…
A woman who is going through this experience has found herself in a place where she has FORGOTTEN what it feels like to be SEXUALLY ALIVE.
See, for most women, they rarely (or NEVER) meet a man who has that amazing combination of "Sexual Confidence" PLUS the ability to really "please" her in the bedroom.
And, just like I programmed myself that there was something "unattractive" about me… and I'd probably never succeed sexually with women… a woman who is sexually dormant has come to believe that this is just the way it is.
She has literally LOST HOPE.
Whoah, heavy man.
But there's good news. And it's VERY good news…
If you work on yourself, and develop your natural Sexual Confidence… then learn a few things about how to please women… you can awaken a woman's sexual side. And then… WATCH OUT.
Even though this sounds like some kind of romance novel sex fantasy, it's 100% true. Every word of it. And I'm going to prove it to you… One Technique That Will Literally Transform Your "Sexual Success" With Women Instantly…
Before I go on, I'd like to share a technique that you can use to dramatically increase your success with women on a sexual level. If you pay attention and USE what I'm about to share, you will see VERY powerful results. Why am I going to share this technique with you? Because I want you to see for yourself just how much difference a small change can make. And I want to you to see for yourself that you can LEARN how to improve your sexual success with women (I also want you to invest in my home-study program as well, but that's another story…). Have you ever heard me tell the story of "Old Bull and Young Bull"? Maybe you've heard the joke…
Old Bull and Young Bull are standing on a hill. Young Bull says to Old Bull, "Hey, let's run down there and have sex with one of them cows". Old Bull slowly turns to Young Bull and says, "Let's WALK down there, and have sex with ALL of them". The moral of the story is that Old Bull has learned that being in too much of a hurry limits your sexual success. Being in too much of a hurry scares women away. Being in too much of a hurry makes women RESIST… it weirds them out. If being in too much of a hurry hurts you, then what's the obvious solution?
SLOW DOWN. This is a good start, by the way. And I recommend it. Lean back. Don't move too fast. Don't communicate that you're needy. Don't get overly excited if she gives you a "positive signal". In short, CHILL OUT. But this isn't the ULTIMATE answer.
This isn't the answer that brings you the EXPONENTIAL increase in success.
This isn't the answer that literally gets women AROUSED… and turns them on.
For that, you must do something that's both SIMPLE… and "counter-intuitive".
By counter-intuitive, I mean that you must do something that you'd probably never think of… and you'd never stumble on by accident… because it almost doesn't make sense.
And that's the BEAUTY of it.
Because it's not something that most men think of (or do accidentally), it is INCREDIBLY powerful to do with women… because they never EXPERIENCE it. The "Magic Key" To A Woman's Arousal… Anticipation
The way to take this idea of "slowing down", and multiply its effectiveness… is to add a simple twist to it.
This twist is to actually STOP once in awhile… and GO BACKWARDS a step.
In fact, I call this technique "Two Steps Forward, One Step Back".
And here's why it works:
For a woman, arousal (or being "turned on") is all about ANTICIPATION.
Men get turned on instantly… but women usually take longer. And they ENJOY the process of getting turned on more and more over time.
If you know this simple fact… and you know how to create MENTAL ANTICIPATION… you will know the secret of getting any woman aroused sexually.
Here's how to do it…
Next time you're with a woman, tell yourself that you're going to STOP at every "base", and take a step BACK.
Let's say you've kissed her for the first time.
STOP.
Lean back.
Smile at her.
Start talking again.
And don't touch her
"Is It Really Possible For A Guy Who Has Literally No Sexual Confidence And No Control Over His Sex Drive To Transform Himself Into The Kind Of "In Control" Man That Women Desire, Respect… And Secretly Fantasize About?"
About the Author
Attended Christ the King Secondary school, Portharcourt,Nigeria Now currently a student of marketing, Federal Polytechnic Nekede Owerri Imo state. Both in Nigeria

Friday, November 21, 2008

How Can I Be Funny?

How Can I Be Funny? by Martin

How Can I Be Funny?
The essence of comedy and humour, why we perceive certain things as funny and what actually makes us laugh, has been studied and mused upon for decades, with no real definitive conclusions. But the question most commonly asked by the man on the street, which appears to largely have been overlooked is, can I LEARN to be funny? Is it possible to take an average Joe and turn them into the life and soul of the party, by teaching a variety of principles and techniques?
The desire to learn comedy is obvious. The craving for laughter is inherent in every human, no matter how much some people may try to suppress it. Laughter provides us with about the most positive emotional state a human is capable of, so it stands to reason that the man or woman able to regularly induce this emotion will be in high demand. The ability to make people laugh can grant you instant popularity, and the social and potential reproductive value of such a gift is obvious.
But this brings us to another interesting question. Do you really want to be funny, or do you just want to make people laugh? There's a difference. Whilst comedy and laughter are evidently linked, it is certainly not necessary to say something funny in order to induce laughter. People laugh for a variety of reasons, including embarrassment, nervousness, communicating playfulness, or simply as a result of hearing someone else laugh. Understanding this distinction is important, as it can actually help you to be perceived as funnier than you are.
So, let's come back to the original question. Can you learn to be funny? It is my belief that everybody, no matter how socially inept or solemn in demeanour, has the ability to intentionally come up with something 'funny'. What actually constitutes 'funny' is subjective of course, but clearly it is creating humour that appeals to the maximum possible audience and with the greatest impact that is most desirable, and some people have a more inherent gift for this than others. With this in mind however, the question should really be 'can you learn to be funnier?'
Comedy, like pretty much every human ability, is a learned skill, and as with any skill, it can be worked upon and improved. Some people may have a more natural affinity than others, and may be capable of achieving a higher level of mastery in a given field, but any person is capable of attaining a superior level of ability by virtue of persistence, determination, application and guidance. Nobody is born a concert pianist; an international football player; a movie star. Granted, most people couldn't be a concert pianist no matter how hard they tried, but if they practised daily under the guidance of an experienced teacher, would they ultimately become a very proficient piano player? Yes. Comedy is no different.
Whilst I can't snap my fingers and turn you into the next Chris Rock, I can give you some tips on how to start down the path. Here's my top 10:
1. Judge your audience. The subjects you joke about with your friends will likely be very different to what you joke about with your partner, which in turn will be different to family banter. Always be mindful of the people you are with and the environment you are in. There's no hard and fast rules, it's really just intuition.
2. Know when to turn it off. Don't try and be the 24/7 comedian - firstly, because you can't be, and secondly, because no-one would want you to be anyway. You run the risk of becoming the 'class clown', which is not where you want to be.
3. Don't try and make every line a 'funny'. Comedy is about peaks and troughs. You need the lulls to make the high points (ie: the funny lines) work.
4. Comedy requires confidence. You need the confidence to try and be funny in public, and sufficient self-esteem to not be dragged down when one of your attempts at saying something witty backfires (which it will from time to time). There's no easy way to gain confidence, but there's plenty of resources out there that can help you develop it over time.
5. Try some storytelling. A good story, laced with moments of humour, is a great low-risk way to build your comedy confidence up. Ideally, you want to come up with your own, based on a real situation that happened to you (don't tell me nothing funny has ever happened to you!) and then work it over in your head and see how you can dress it up a bit with some comedy touches. Just make sure the story has an interesting point, and it won't matter so much if your funny lines don't come off. If they don't, simply rework them, then tell the story to someone else and see if you get different results. This form of exercise is good for getting your brain into comedy gear.
6. Learn some basic principles. Many people have tried to categorise jokes, with the size of the lists varying enormously. There is simply no definitive way to pigeon hole a particular funny line, but there are certain recurring themes that you can fall back on again and again. Exaggeration is one of the most commonly used methods. The "Your momma's so fat..." jokes maybe a crass example, but serve as a good reference for this principle. Exaggerating something can create a mental image that people find funny. Other useful tools are misinterpretation - taking something someone said deliberately out of context; misleading - taking the listener in a particular direction, then deliberately changing course (many 'classic' jokes are based on this concept); referencing - if something has made everybody in the group laugh, simply referencing it in some way an hour or two later can produce great results, even if your reference isn't particularly funny in its own right.
7. Analyse your favourite comedians. Whatever sketches you're particularly fond of, break down each funny line and ask yourself what it is about the line that made it funny. You'll be amazed how often the exaggeration technique mentioned above crops up, for example. Do not, however, attempt to outright copy the style of your favourite comedian, as it will be incongruent with who you are.
8. Stay out of your head. Don't spend too much conscious thought on trying to be funny in social situations. The jokes come from your unconscious mind. Let it do its work.
9. Don't force it. Comedy should never be forced in public. The only time to force it is when writing comedy or doing exercises to improve your comedy skills. Under these circumstances, quantity is better than quality, because you can always edit your work to remove any deadwood later. It's much better to have a page of bad jokes than a blank page - at least you're working your comic mind, and the chances are, there'll be at least one gem in there somewhere.
10. Learn and practice. There's not many books out there on the subject that aren't geared at wannabe comedians, but it's worth looking around. Absorb all the information you can, then just keep trying stuff out until your confidence builds up. It can take a while, but it can be done.
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Martin is an avid student of comedy, and has been for in excess of 10 years. He has experience of both writing and performing comedy in a variety of media. If you found this article useful, and would like to know more about how you can enhance your life by improving your comedy skills, please follow this link

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Can A Truck Really Run On Water?

Can A Truck Really Run On Water? by Jim Warren

Have you heard truck that runs on water? It may sound surprising to some but it is quite real. Some people just do not believe it to be true and think that someone would have played a joke on them. And it does! To be honest, this new idea does break all rules that truck has to run on some form of gasoline.
Even electrically run trucks can be thought of but to think of a truck that can run on water is outrageous. The idea is noble and in a sense, can save one a lot of money provided they take interest.
The gasoline prices are anyways high, and by using water as an alternate fuel instead of gasoline, you could convert the gas guzzlers into mean machines for sure. For you to know, how can you use water to run your trucks, you should read this article.
You would already be thinking that you should be pouring water into the engine. Do that and be prepared to be hit by a hefty repair bill. See - Water is made of Hydrogen and Oxygen. All you have to do is work a technique in separating the Hydrogen and Oxygen. Once you do that you could use Hydrogen, a highly inflammable substance as fuel.
Now they key is - How do you do it? With a process of electrolysis, you could easily break water into Hydrogen and Oxygen separately. There comes the need of an electrolysis device that could do this task, because you cannot do this manually.
A truck that runs on water uses an electrolysis device. This device is used to extract hydrogen from water. The hydrogen extracted can be used as a fuel source in the engine. There are couple of challenges with this working here - 1) Enough amounts of Hydrogen has to be generated, and 2) There has to be a mechanism by which the hydrogen can be transported to the engine. Drivers who have used this as a source have reported difference in results. Thus, you may be better off finding if you can use this as a source or not.
"There's a sucker born every minute," carnival king P.T. Barnum allegedly proclaimed in the fall of 1869. And while Barnum was never known to own an auto dealership (after all, he died in 1891 -- several years before Henry cranked out his first Ford), some might believe his words live on in the heart of every car salesman.
About the Author
Jim Warren writes of Japanese Mini Trucks. Topic areas include maintenance, as well as custom design and owner news alerts. Visit http://www.japaneseminitrucksguide.com for more information.

Watch Comedy For Stress Relief

Watch Comedy For Stress Relief by Mark Doyle

With today's fast paced life style many people are dealing with more stress than ever. Factor in the raising cost of gas and slowing of the economy and it is clear to see a population that is stressed out. Growing data indicates that a good belly laugh may be the best way to battle stress. So go to the local comedy club or check out the free comedy clips on line for some stress relief.
Laughter's benefit on your health is no joke, and provide both long term and short term benefits. When you laugh, it doesn't just lighten your load mentally, it actually induces physical changes in your body.
Laughter enhances your intake of oxygen-rich air, stimulates your heart, lungs and muscles, and increases the endorphins that are released by your brain. A good laugh cools down your stress response and increases your heart rate and blood pressure. A good, relaxed feeling, and lower stress rates are the result. Laughter can also ease digestion and stimulate circulation, which helps reduce some of the physical symptoms of stress.
Long term benefits include an improved immune system. Negative thoughts manifest into chemical reactions that can impact your body by bringing more stress into your system and decrease your immunity. In contrast, positive thoughts actually release neuropathies that help fight stress and potentially more serious illnesses. One study, of people with cancer who watched humorous videos showed less stress. and an increase in a particular cell activity that's beneficial in fighting diseases such as HIV and cancer. Research increasingly shows that laughter may ease pain by causing the body to produce its own natural painkillers.
Laughter can also help make difficult situations a little bit easier. One study of nurses who work in emergency rooms found that nurses who use humor in dealing with their patients and co-workers experience greater job satisfaction. They also experienced feelings of personal accomplishment more than do those who do not laugh during their shifts.
The data is in that laughter is good for you, and it is a lot of fun too. So get that funny movie or go to the comedy club or watch stand up comedy online to enjoy the positive effects of humor on your body and mind.


About the Author
Mark Doyle is a professional comic, and public speaker, he's owned a comedy club and now owns one of the top stand up comedy site's http://killercomedyonline.com Offers free stand up comedy videos from the funniest comedy club headliners working today. With hours of free stand up comedy and funny gifts it is a great site for some laughs! Check it out.

Stop Your Hair Loss

Stop Your Hair Loss Like I Did. by Willie

Stop Hair Loss
A man is lucky to have friends who will be honest with him about the sensitive hair loss subject. I'm no exception. When I bumped into one of my best friends from high school at a local ball game, I could see the shock on his face when he noticed my drastic hair loss. At first, he smiled and made small talk, but then he got very serious. "Willie," he said in a hushed whisper that had me leaning close, "you know bald isn't in. It's way out." His lopsided smile wasn't making fun of my hair loss. I could feel his compassion as he spoke to me. "If you had seen me a few months ago, you'd be thinking that both of us had aged a lot sense high school, but discovering Provillus has changed my life and reversed the hair loss that once plagued me."
I have tried other hair growth and anti hair loss products, and most of those are scams meant to slip the money out of our desperate hands, so I wasn't very excited to try another, but Charlie was so adamant that I knew I'd give Provillus a chance.
Were my hair loss reversal results worth it?
You bet! Looking into my mirror today, I don't see a man ruined by hair loss and old before his time. I see a man who has a lot to offer, a man with a winning smile, a man with shiny hair that commands attention. Never a joke. Never a cruel bald comment. Often, very often, a sexy smile that reminds me I still got it.
Hair loss has a way of taking the excitement out of your life. You know what I'm talking about - I know you do, because I have been there, too. Runs through the park, nights out on the town, dates with interesting people, even family time can be excruciating when you live with the dread that your problems will make you the butt of the joke.
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